If you find yourself in situations where your intentions (values) are not in harmony with your environment or choices try not dulling the life changing learning that comes with noticing and sitting with your feelings.
Taking happy pills, switching jobs, divorce, separation, retaliation etc. prematurely does not allow for your deepest learning & alignment with your soul.
Try going away from your head & into your heart. What are you feeling? What are you learning about yourself? What are you learning about others? What future choices would create feelings that are better aligned with your intentions?
Sometimes it takes a while. Learning through deep reflection has its own timing. It took me over 3 years of sitting with my heart & talking before it became clear to me how I could honor my values.